Have you ever felt that, in addition to being a professional, homemaker and mom, you are also your husband’s bedside psychologist? If you spend your time deciphering his silences, scheduling his medical appointments and managing his emotions because he “doesn’t know how”, let us tell you that you are a victim of Mankeeping. <\/p>\n
In a revealing episode of \u00bfY t\u00fa Qu\u00e9Onnda, a stellar production of Nueva Network and Qu\u00e9Onnda, our beloved hosts Jimena Aguilar, Arely Inzunza and Karina Zambrano dotted the i’s and crossed the t’s regarding this phenomenon that is bringing women to the brink of collapse.<\/p>\n
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The term combines man (man) and keeping (keeping\/sustaining).<\/p>\n
It is not a matter of supporting him financially, but of supporting him emotionally in the face of his lack of support networks.<\/p>\n
While we have the “therapeutic coffee” with our girlfriends, many men suffer a “friendship recession”: they talk about soccer or carnitas asadas, but are incapable of saying to a compadre: “I feel bad”.<\/p>\n
“We women have evolved on a psychological level, we have devoted ourselves to healing and therapy… but the men have not. We are looking for men who do not yet exist,” reflected Arely Inzunza during the talk.<\/p>\n
The trajectory of our female drivers came to light when analyzing shocking figures: in Mexico, women dedicate an average of 40 hours a week to caregiving, compared to only 16 for men.<\/p>\n
But Mankeeping goes beyond the physical work; it is the mental workload.<\/p>\n
It is being the “living agenda”, remembering their family’s birthdays and, above all, acting as emotional contenders for adults who do not know how to manage themselves.<\/p>\n
Jimena Aguilar and Karina Zambrano agreed that the solution is a two-way challenge: men must take responsibility and women must let go of control.<\/p>\n
For them:<\/strong> Let them do it their way (even if the kids go combined as a safe or the egg gets salty).<\/p>\n For them:<\/strong> Create real support networks with other men where vulnerability is not synonymous with weakness, but with maturity.<\/p>\n This episode is not an attack, it is an invitation to build more balanced marriages where no one has to be the other’s therapist in order to survive.<\/p>\n The episode is now available on Qu\u00e9Onnda TV’s YouTube<\/a> channel, where you can also listen to other titles promoted by Qu\u00e9Onnda and Nueva Network, such as Los Jefes Deportes<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n Filed under: What is Mankeeping?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Have you ever felt that, in addition to being a professional, homemaker and mom, you are also your husband’s bedside psychologist? If you spend your time deciphering his silences, scheduling his medical appointments and managing his emotions because he “doesn’t know how”, let us tell you that you are a victim of Mankeeping. In a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":162293,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"video","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1318],"tags":[1337,1507],"class_list":{"0":"post-162294","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-video","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-queonnda-tv","8":"tag-queonnda-tv","9":"tag-y-tu-que-onnda","10":"post_format-post-format-video"},"yoast_head":"\n