In an episode of her podcast “El Show de Chiquibaby” on YouTube, host Stephanie Himonidis Sedano, better known as Chiquibaby, tackled a topic that many couples face in silence: post-holiday conflicts and how to prevent divorce through key questions.
“The questions that every couple should ask themselves if they want to stay married, because something happens: after the holidays, many couples fight and things don’t go well,” commented the program’s team. This phenomenon is not isolated: the first Monday of January is already known as “Divorce Day”, due to the increase in legal consultations after the Christmas tensions.
What do we like about each other?
This is one of the key questions couples should ask themselves if they want to stay married.
It is recommended to reflect on the positive aspects of the relationship.
“One of the questions couples should ask themselves is, what do we like about each other?”.
This exercise, although simple, can reconnect couples emotionally and remind them why they are together.
How do we visualize our future?
Talking about the direction of the relationship is essential.
“The second question is how do we feel about the future?”.
Having compatible goals is essential for a relationship to move forward.
“If you want kids and she doesn’t, or if you want to travel and she doesn’t, you have to come to a middle ground,” Chiquibaby pointed out.
It's like we're on a small boat: if one goes one way and the other goes the other way, we don't move forward at all
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What small change can we make?
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Another key question is: “What small change are we willing to make?” whether financially, emotionally, socially or in health.
The willingness to adjust to each other reflects commitment and maturity.
What is the most difficult topic?
Finally, confronting uncomfortable issues strengthens the relationship.
“What is the most difficult topic for us to talk about?”.
Effective communication, even about what is uncomfortable, can prevent irreversible distancing.
Crises do not always mean the end.
With honest questions and ongoing dialogue, couples can identify opportunities for joint growth.
For the U.S. Hispanic community, where daily life imposes additional challenges, these tools are essential to strengthen the home.
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